I pray you benefit from this video and from the marriage advice given. Here are some of the references of the ahadith I mentioned in the video. May Allah bless you all.
عَنْ جَابِرٍ، قَالَ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم ” إِنَّ إِبْلِيسَ يَضَعُ عَرْشَهُ عَلَى الْمَاءِ ثُمَّ يَبْعَثُ سَرَايَاهُ فَأَدْنَاهُمْ مِنْهُ مَنْزِلَةً أَعْظَمُهُمْ فِتْنَةً يَجِيءُ أَحَدُهُمْ فَيَقُولُ فَعَلْتُ كَذَا وَكَذَا فَيَقُولُ مَا صَنَعْتَ شَيْئًا قَالَ ثُمَّ يَجِيءُ أَحَدُهُمْ فَيَقُولُ مَا تَرَكْتُهُ حَتَّى فَرَّقْتُ بَيْنَهُ وَبَيْنَ امْرَأَتِهِ – قَالَ – فَيُدْنِيهِ مِنْهُ وَيَقُولُ نِعْمَ أَنْتَ ” . قَالَ الأَعْمَشُ أُرَاهُ قَالَ ” فَيَلْتَزِمُهُ ” .
Jabir reported that Allah’s Messenger (ﷺ) said: Iblis places his throne upon water; he then sends detachments (for creating dissension) ; the nearer to him in rank are those who are most notorious in creating dissension. One of them comes and says: “I did so and so.” And he says: “You have done nothing.” Then one amongst them comes and says: “I did not spare so and so until I sowed the seed of discord between a husband and a wife.” The Satan goes near him and says: “You have done well.” A’mash said: He then embraces him. [Muslim]
عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ، قَالَ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم ” لاَ يَفْرَكْ مُؤْمِنٌ مُؤْمِنَةً إِنْ كَرِهَ مِنْهَا خُلُقًا رَضِيَ مِنْهَا آخَرَ ”
Abu Huraira (Allah be pleased with him) reported Allah’s Messenger (ﷺ) as saying: A believing man should not hate a believing woman; if he dislikes one of her characteristics, he will be pleased with another. [Muslim]
لا ينظرُ اللهُ تبارك وتعالى إلى امرأةٍ لا تشكُرُ لزوجِها ؛ وهيَ لا تَستَغني عنهُ .
The prophet (ﷺ) said: “Allah, The Exalted, does not look (with mercy) at a woman who is not grateful to her husband when she cannot live without him.” [Saheeh At-targheeb]
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Assalamualaikum wbt
ya shaykh
Do u have Arabic translation for this video?
Sheikh Majid how do I get in touch with you ?
May Allah save all of our marriages, may Allah guide us all and make our love grow for our spouses and our spouses love grow for us.
Whoever is reading this, may Allah fill your life with endless happy moments, countless wonderful surprises, and infinite success!
thank you
Awww! May Allah bless us all with wonderful spouses …matter fact, may Allah make me wonderful for my future husband 😊
May Allah bless you and your family brother! May Allah protect all of us from Shayateen!
سبحان الله و الحمد. الله و لاإله إله إلا الله و الله أكبر100 مرة في اليوم كل مازدت زاد الأجر، هن الباقيات الصالحات تبقي بعد الحساب ترفع درجاتك و تدافع عنك تأتي كالطير و تكلم محامية عنك!! الله أكبر للأجر.
Sir Ássalamu Alaikum ,im your great fan.Brother please make dua for me in marriage life also problems .